When Home Is Not Safe

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to bring greater awareness to the realities many individuals and families face, while remembering that behind every statistic is a person, a parent, a child, a story, and a life worthy of dignity, safety, and hope.

This reality hit close to home for Kelly*, who contacted Safe Families for Children while fleeing a severe domestic violence situation. Desperate for a safe harbor, she needed someone to care for her two young children while she figured out where they would land. As a new single mother with no immediate family to lean on, Kelly felt entirely overwhelmed by the sudden burden of sole parenting and financial survival. Having aged out of the foster care system herself, she was fiercely determined to protect her children from that same destiny.

When a local domestic violence shelter referred her to Safe Families for Children (SFFC), Kelly reached out immediately. Within two days, staff located a vetted Host Family. The Childress family opened their hearts and their home, caring for Kelly’s girls so she could focus on an intensive six-week job training program. The two girls seamlessly folded into the “all-boy” home and quickly adjusted from playhouses with dolls to forts with action heroes.

“I honestly didn’t think that this was for real. I couldn’t believe there were people who would open their homes to strangers to love and care for my children during a difficult time. This was a complete answer from God.”

During those six weeks, Kelly worked tirelessly to build a stable foundation. She earned her professional work certificate, secured a childcare voucher, and arranged short-term housing. This gave her the breathing room she needed to save money for a permanent home. Moved by her resilience, the Childress family’s local church community stepped in to support her journey. They generously covered her apartment deposit and threw her a household shower, equipping Kelly with everything she needed to launch her new independent life.

“I was completely overwhelmed with the love and support of me and my family. Safe Families talks about hospitality, generosity, and compassion, and I received it many times over. I can’t thank them enough. We now have a family I can count on.”

At Safe Families, we believe families are strengthened when communities come around them—bringing their unique gifts, time, resources, prayers, and presence to families experiencing challenging circumstances. No one person can meet every need. But together, we can become family so no one is alone! This month, may we be willing to see what is often unseen, stay present when things become difficult, and show up with the love of Christ in tangible ways. We may never know the full impact of one conversation, one prayer, one meal, one night of respite, or simply two words: “I’m here.”

 

There is room in this work. Whether you have time to give, a home to share, resources to offer, a gift to contribute, or simply a heart willing to pray, your presence can become part of the support a family needs.
*Name and photo changed for privacy

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Safe Families for Children, National Office
4300 W. Irving Park Road
Chicago, IL 60641
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