by Cherie Curtis, Chapter Director of Safe Families for Children Raleigh/Durham, NC
Behind every number we report is a family whose life has been touched by Safe Families for Children. Valerie’s story is a powerful example of how Circles of Support lead to long-term stability, dignity, and connectedness.
About a year ago, Valerie graduated from a drug recovery program, surrounded by Safe Families’ volunteers who walked beside her as she pursued her dreams. What she may not have imagined then is that those friends would become her brothers and sisters in Christ.
In the past year, Valerie has renewed her driver’s license, been given a car, and started a new job where she can bring her son with her, removing the barrier of daycare. Friends helped her prepare her resume and practice interview skills, and God opened the door for meaningful work. She continues to stay close to her Family Friends, and has expanded her circle to include young moms from Bible Study and older members of the congregation who encourage her when life feels overwhelming.
Valarie shares, “Everytime I felt like I needed God, He showed me something. When I needed more warmth, He put the right people in front of me. When I was screaming in my head from anxiety, He gave me the time needed to calm down and talk with Him. I have been so blessed this year with people God has brought to me, my friends, family, and cheerleaders. If you just wait, God does come through; He is always there and He is on.”
Today, Valerie continues to trust God with her present and future, often saying, “Without God I wouldn’t be able to do this.” Her story reminds us that we don’t control the future and when we try to fix things ourselves, we can get in the way of what God is already doing.”